If you have ever looked at or written one
of those personal ads that you put on a dating site or in the
paper describing the perfect partner for the perfect night of
romance, you notice certain phrases jump out. Certain images
like "walking hand in hand along the beach" or "a
gentle fire, a bottle of wine and long conversation" or
"watching the sun set over the mountains" seem to come
out a lot. No doubt most of us get some of these images from our
favorite romantic comedy movies we enjoy so much.
So when you are planning a night with that
special girl and you want it to be to the ultimate in romance,
there is nothing like some mystery to add to the excitement of
the date. If you can tickle her sense of anticipation with not
one surprise but surprise after surprise that her mystery man is
springing on her, you may find her ready to surprise you with
some excitement later in the evening.
The best way to start out a night of
mystery and romance is quietly. While she might expect the date
to get off with a bang, going to a romantic little hideaway for
wine and soft romantic chat can put her in a sweet loving mood
and make whatever stresses the day might have brought along melt
away so her mind and heart is all yours for the night. It is
during this fun, flirtatious and cuddling setting that you set
the mood for a night of surprise and mystery that lies ahead.
A special night of romance and mystery
like this will be a treat so you won't do this every time you go
out. In fact, you can make special nights of excitement like
this add a lot of spice and sizzle to your love life it she
never knows when to expect it. So you have your
"regular" date nights which, of course, you both
always enjoy. Whether that's dinner and a movie, cooking at home
and building a fire or going to a play followed by dessert, the
key to a date life that never loses its "zing" is
surprise and variety.
But for your special mystery date, you
will want to pick a restaurant that will be just as enticing as
you have been with your flirtation. It isn't necessary to
blindfold her as you drive to the destination but that has a lot
of potential for arousing her sense of anticipation. Of course,
a restaurant that is a little more expensive than usual is
always a treat as long as she is dressed for the occasion. But
the perfect dining experience will be exotic, quiet and not only
have wonderful food and wine but an atmosphere designed in every
way to build the romance of the evening.
A little secret women is that you don't
have to go to a lavish and extravagant outing to make the
evening ultra special. You can plan that walk on the beach that
has been on your list for so long and have the best date ever
with no more expense than a rose for her hair and the smile on
your face.
Just remember to make the night all about
her. If you have listened to her closely throughout the night,
you know the special little touches to throw in to get that
giggle of excitement and joy and a special hug because you paid
attention.
Even if you are on a budget then you can
still shower her with caresses, cuddles, compliments and gentle,
suggestive whispers. Take your time with your sweetheart and let
the evening conclude in an intimate place like a private living
room with a warm fire and a night cap where the affection can
take you where it will. All of these special touches will add up
to a date she will never forget and make you her prince of
mystery and romance for a long time to come.